After Retiring from the Police Force, He’s Still Serving His Community

Ronnie Tishkevich is a Friendly Visitor
October 9, 2018 Updated: October 9, 2018

NEW YORK—After nearly 30 years of community service with the police, you’d think New Yorker Ronnie Tishkevich would want to take it easy in his retirement. But helping people is in his blood. His prayers were answered one day when he found out about a senior visiting service, and unexpectedly found a new appreciation for the simple things in life.

Tishkevich grew up in the Flatbush area of Brooklyn, and vividly remembers spending his summers in the park. He would play from 9 a.m. to 9 p.m. until his mother would have to drag him home. There was the occasional fight, sometimes with a best friend, but it was just part of life growing up.

A retired Ronnie Tishkevich relaxing in the park
Retiree Ronnie Tishkevich relaxes in the park. (Shenghua Sung/The Epoch Times)

After majoring in sociology and playing on the basketball team at Rhode Island University, Tishkevich became a federal police officer for the United States Park Police in 1976. The job wasn’t just about law enforcement, it was about community.

“It was a perfect job for me. Driving around on patrol I was able to talk to people. I love to help people out. I’m softhearted,” Tishkevich told The Epoch Times. “I did not go around looking to write tickets. If I stopped someone I gave them all the benefit of the doubt, even if [I thought they] were lying to me.”

Ronnie Tishkevich on his balcony
Ronnie Tishkevich on the his balcony of his New York apartment. (Shenghua Sung/The Epoch Times)

After 27 years of service, he retired early. His wife had been battling lung cancer, and Tishkevich was determined to be by her side. After a long struggle, Tishkevich’s wife passed away on July 2, 2003. Still, he was determined to keep helping others.

“I said I want to give something back. I believe in God. I felt like he gave me everything. I actually prayed to him—this is a true story—I prayed to him and said, ‘I would like to help some people out. I’m friendly, I get along with people, but I don’t want to visit people in a nursing home or a hospital,'” Tishkevich recalled.

Four days later, he received a letter from Citymeals on Wheels looking for volunteers for its Friendly Visiting program.

New Friends

The Friendly Visiting program encourages people to visit lonely seniors who are living by themselves. In 2006, Tishkevich interviewed and was accepted, and began visiting the elderly in their homes.

“I started to visit them to give something back, but you know what, after I started visiting them, and they appreciated me coming over—they were so lonely, they wanted someone to talk to—I ended up falling in love with it, and couldn’t wait to see them the following week,” Tishkevich said.

He has visited over 20 seniors, but has a special relationship with an 82-year-old gentleman named Michael. Unfortunately, Michael suffered a stroke about four years ago, and is bound to a wheelchair. For the last three years, Tishkevich has been visiting Michael, who doesn’t have family living close by.

Ronnie Tishkevich pointing at a picture of him and Michael
Ronnie Tishkevich pointing at a picture of himself and Michael. (Shenghua Sung/The Epoch Times)

The two simply talk for an hour, and Tishkevich listens. They’ll converse about current events, politics, family, and Tishkevich’s experience as a police officer. He also helps Michael open the elevator so he can get downstairs, and out of the apartment. The two take strolls to the park, and Michael often shows Tishkevich a way of looking at the world that he hadn’t considered before.

“I walk by here every time, I never even notice the flowers. And here I am, I’m taking him to the bench and he says ‘Ronnie look at those flowers! Look at that!’ and he’s appreciating stuff. And I said, ‘We don’t appreciate stuff. We walk by stuff, all of us, we don’t even see things, we take everything for granted.’

Ronnie Tishkevich walking through the park where he takes Michael
Ronnie Tishkevich walking through the park where he takes Michael. (Shenghua Sung/The Epoch Times)

“Here I have a guy trapped in his apartment, I take him out to sit at the bench and look at flowers and people, and how happy he is. It’s such a good feeling,” Tishkevich said holding back tears.

Being Appreciative

Tishkevich is only expected to spend an hour with the seniors he visits, but he’s not thinking about time when he’s with people like Michael. In addition to going to the park, Tishkevich will take Michael to get groceries, a haircut, and whatever else he needs.

Rain or shine, Tishkevich will walk over to visit Michael once a week, even if Michael insists he stay home. When Citymeals on Wheels delivers food to the apartment, Michael insists on answering the door himself, but Tishkevich always lends a hand.

Ronnie Tishkevich looking into the distance
Ronnie Tishkevich looking out from his apartment balcony. (Shenghua Sung/The Epoch Times)

The relationship with Michael and the other seniors he visits has given the 69-year-old some valuable perspective on life.

“I feel like, look at this, here’s a person who’s just happy by me visiting him, and I said, ‘I better appreciate what I have. I better appreciate it.'”

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